Low-key one of the reasons I (cishet guy) feel so at home with all my gay transfem, lesbian, and queer of other flavors friends, is cuz a lot of them also like cute girls :3
(I also love all my other homies that dont tho)
Okay but actually I think the real reason that it sometimes seems more pathetic in guys is that it is much more often expressed in a creepy or legitimate pathetic way like incels and stuff
Also tendencies to treat girls like commodities or prizes instead of human beings to be loved and adored and cherished for being cute
Personally I don’t see why guys wanting to kiss cute girls is pathetic?
Who doesn’t like cute girls?
Are there people who like girls who don’t wish for one they could kiss at all times?
Our feeling is that it isn’t and people here are just pretending to play up the theme of this community.
That or society teaches us that being desperate for connection, even though the world is so lonely, is pathetic. Take your pick.
I truthfully don’t have an answer for you I don’t know why it would be considered pathetic
EXACTLY!
Low-key one of the reasons I (cishet guy) feel so at home with all my gay transfem, lesbian, and queer of other flavors friends, is cuz a lot of them also like cute girls :3
(I also love all my other homies that dont tho)
Okay but actually I think the real reason that it sometimes seems more pathetic in guys is that it is much more often expressed in a creepy or legitimate pathetic way like incels and stuff Also tendencies to treat girls like commodities or prizes instead of human beings to be loved and adored and cherished for being cute