Low-key one of the reasons I (cishet guy) feel so at home with all my gay transfem, lesbian, and queer of other flavors friends, is cuz a lot of them also like cute girls :3
(I also love all my other homies that dont tho)
Okay but actually I think the real reason that it sometimes seems more pathetic in guys is that it is much more often expressed in a creepy or legitimate pathetic way like incels and stuff
Also tendencies to treat girls like commodities or prizes instead of human beings to be loved and adored and cherished for being cute
EXACTLY!
Low-key one of the reasons I (cishet guy) feel so at home with all my gay transfem, lesbian, and queer of other flavors friends, is cuz a lot of them also like cute girls :3
(I also love all my other homies that dont tho)
Okay but actually I think the real reason that it sometimes seems more pathetic in guys is that it is much more often expressed in a creepy or legitimate pathetic way like incels and stuff Also tendencies to treat girls like commodities or prizes instead of human beings to be loved and adored and cherished for being cute