I swear I’m not Jessica

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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • Learn to love yourself so you have something to fight for. Be consciously grateful for the good things in life, as you’ll get more happiness out of them than you do now. Live in the moment so you can fully appreciate what you experience.

    Working will still suck and you’ll feel bad sometimes, but so long as you can get everything out of the good; so long as you don’t let bullshit ruin your sense of self, you won’t want to die.

    Filling your life in this way is a constant effort, but it will keep it from being hollow. Novel interests alone can’t compete.





  • You were cared for once, you can be cared for again. I wouldn’t mind playing with your hair as you rest your head in my lap :3

    Self hatred doesn’t help you in any way. It’s not more rational by simply being mean. You are not inherently bad, even if you do bad things. You can always improve, but you never will unless you let that hatred go. It’s never going to be easy or pleasant all the time, but it won’t be only misery either.












  • A lot of young women have issues with the Democrats. Most Democratic voters have major issues with the Democrats. They kinda suck, especially as champions of marginalized groups. We still need to fight tooth and nail for everything because the party doesn’t want to piss off the wealthy.

    If anything, we can bond over our shared frustration with the Democrats 🤝










  • Last I heard about her absence was this blog. In short, it wasn’t the bigots who drove her away, but transfems who don’t appreciate that there isn’t a monolithic trans experience. A ton of the most brutal vitriol against trans creators comes from within the community.

    There seems to be a tiny minority of toxic shitheads who spearhead it, trying to police and purity test people’s identities. These ghouls are small enough to instigate drama without much recourse, as people forget about them quickly after they get debunked and called out. They’re so successful because they exploit the insecurities and trauma of other queer people. They get people to earnestly side with them, resulting in their narratives becoming popular. Many people have left the internet for significant periods as a result.













  • Can confirm. I have met transmasc people in person, and I felt so much more comfortable around them. The biggest sign that I was trans was how much I related to trans people before knowing they were trans. It was like, “Wow, this person gets me like no one else has and we share so much in common!” Jessica, you were so dumb 😑



  • The only good cops are the ones who hate their job and quit. The people duped by propaganda into thinking cops were heroic knights for the people. Unfortunately, all knights were bastards too. The only difference is that the knights might fight each other on behalf of those lords. Capitalism was just the lords agreeing to share most of their knights.

    Knights are inherently dishonorable, while nobility never did anything noble. Robinhood was based, while the knights were hogs. Batman is the ninja type “dark knight” in every sense. There’s a reason crime was always awful in Arkham City. Batman is a bastard.