• MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz
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      1 month ago

      Personally I don’t see why guys wanting to kiss cute girls is pathetic?

      Who doesn’t like cute girls?

      Are there people who like girls who don’t wish for one they could kiss at all times?

      • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        1 month ago

        Our feeling is that it isn’t and people here are just pretending to play up the theme of this community.

        That or society teaches us that being desperate for connection, even though the world is so lonely, is pathetic. Take your pick.

      • astropenguin5@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        EXACTLY!

        Low-key one of the reasons I (cishet guy) feel so at home with all my gay transfem, lesbian, and queer of other flavors friends, is cuz a lot of them also like cute girls :3

        (I also love all my other homies that dont tho)

        Okay but actually I think the real reason that it sometimes seems more pathetic in guys is that it is much more often expressed in a creepy or legitimate pathetic way like incels and stuff Also tendencies to treat girls like commodities or prizes instead of human beings to be loved and adored and cherished for being cute