Pic somewhat related I remember when I, a Cisgender Man™, would proudly tell my friends that one year I was going to do a Madoka cosplay for comic con, because I am, and I do quote, “secure in my masculinity”. “I won’t wear a wig, I’ll actually grow my hair and dye it bright pink and gel it to fit the cosplay,” I proclaimed with all the testosterone I could. “It’ll be funny because Madoka is a small girl and I am a large man,” I said, with not so much as a drop of irony or knowing in my words.