• Nat (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 days ago

    I don’t think you’re going to get much farther just thinking about what you hypothetically might do. If you want to really know what’ll work, you have to try things and monitor how you feel.

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      7 days ago

      Tbh I’m getting tired of being told to try things. I’ve been pushed into trying things since long before I started seriously questioning my own identity because everyone else around me has been questioning my identity for much longer, and I already know what doesn’t work for me.

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          7 days ago

          Thank you it’s ok. Rest assured the people in my life are doing plenty to encourage me to try different things and it started to feel like this thread was turning into piling onto retreading those same conversations when I didn’t intend on opening that can of worms.

          I appreciate it’s well intentioned though ❤️