• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    1·
    10 hours ago

    Wait ok what.

    So you are… engaged to Aiko… and also have been dating Will for 4 months?

    And you’ve made 2 other comments as well.

    So… I’m confused…

    Are you… dating or otherwise partnered with two people at the same time?

    Am I understanding this right?

    ???

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        2·
        10 hours ago

        Can you draw a diagram for me?

        I’m serious, I’m not trying to be an ass, I am confused as to… who knows who, and how, and what…

        You know, I’m probably not the right person to ask for advice on this, I have very little experience with … ongoing polyamory situations.

        …Do we have some kind of an ‘Ask Alice’ type lemmy comm?

        I feel like that has to already exist, somewhere on lemmy or piefed or somewhere.

        • Wendy@thelemmy.clubEnglish
          1·
          9 hours ago

          Oh no, it’s basically like I’m dating Aiko (engaged) and I’m dating Will, and they know of each other, but they’re not dating, they’re just dating me.