

Ok, he’s being nice to me now again UGHHHH NOW I FEEL BAD!
22F
Bisexual
Taken by my fiancée and boyfriend


Ok, he’s being nice to me now again UGHHHH NOW I FEEL BAD!


Me and Aiko have been dating for 4 years, engaged for 11 months. Will, my boyfriend, and I have been dating for about 4 months. I have figured it out and the more I think about it (or don’t!) the more I lose feelings for him because all he talks about is his boyfriend, but then he’s flirty or romantic with me and is very touchy and kissy so then I wanna go back to him and I just melt.
He doesn’t wanna hang out with me, even saying he doesn’t really feel like it, but then he will if he feels it’s mandatory, like in therapy where you have to pay a fee if you don’t show up without calling in. And yeah, he left me on read again so he definitely found his phone and just ghosted me.


Yeah… do you think I should talk to him again more or just break up?


He already doesn’t mention me to others, only talks about his boyfriend, I’m an afterthought, and then he’s romantic with me again so I shut up about what I feel about him


Correct
Ok, so I figured it out. This guy is going to be in the military. So Will gets attached easily to people besides me and he doesn’t wanna miss time on him