The dialectic of ‘I want to look cool as fuck’ and ‘I don’t want people to look at me’.
See also: I want to outwardly be my true self but I don’t want my shortcomings to reflect on any groups I am part of.
i solve the problem by dressing well, but still unremarkable. like, you have to look twice to see the harmony in it.
you dress up for yourself, not for anyone else. if you’re going to be awkward and alone, might as well look epic while doing that.
clothing, and fashion in general, exists to make you happy. if the colors clash, but it makes you smile?
sah but suddenly you get comments how good you are looking and honestly… I dunno how to handle that…
am guy (feel free to execute me for being a guy in this community), and decided to dress for myself rather than for the great male renunciation. I wear a kilt around and made patches for it, I dress slightly fruty but not in any way anyone can label. because skirts with pokets are much more comfortable than pants.
Was awkward at the beginning, but it feels so good. only gotten compliments from cool people, and get ignored by people I would rather ignore myself. be yourself, be free (as long as it’s safe for you to do so).
feel free to execute me for being a guy in this community
as far as i know, the procedure for men in this community is forceful feminisation
So long as the guys are still femme, they don’t need to be femmed any harder :3
i shouldn’t be forced femmed, I’m already too cute, force fem me and I’ll become more powerful than you can possibly imagine.
ONE OF US! ONE OF US!!
you could get enough power to take over the world
checking out the state of the world
you know what, no thanks
can you recommend a kiltery? i have been wanting to buy some and all i know is utilikilt. wife probably would not be happy if i started wearing skirts but i don’t know if i can take another confined summer
i just looked for utility kilts on Amazon, lived 5 years in Scotland and never bought one due to choice anxiety.
keep in mind 99% of kilt rules aren’t Scottish, they are English rules made to ban and contol kilt usage. wear them however the fuck you want. unless you have an emotional connection to a specific org/clan you don’t need to get a specific pattern.
about your wife, imagine the roles being reversed, she wants to wear something but won’t because she fears your disapproval. see how that sounds? I feel guilty just making up that hypothetical. wear what you like, it isn’t your wife’s business, she can approve or ignore it.
about your wife, imagine the roles being reversed, she wants to wear something but won’t because she fears your disapproval. see how that sounds? I feel guilty just making up that hypothetical. wear what you like, it isn’t your wife’s business, she can approve or ignore it.
oh, it’s not that, i just don’t want to rub her nose in it. she normally celebrates my unusualness but this is one i feel like i’ve got to ease her into.
kilt is a good way to ease her into you wearing skirts. because it’s still a “manly” thing and looks sexy. but be wants, the are comfortable
i just want a nice breeze is all, and we’ve talked about it an i might get a kilt from her for my birthday
Oh thanks for the reminder I need to take my meds
that’s true, can’t be banned from here for being a guy if I’m not real
not true! I plan to ask one person where the cat went
bring cat ears, become the cat
I’m sorry i missed that (^≗ω≗^)
oof, I feel called out
