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minus-squarespacesatan@leminal.spacelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up12·2 days agoThe dialectic of ‘I want to look cool as fuck’ and ‘I don’t want people to look at me’. See also: I want to outwardly be my true self but I don’t want my shortcomings to reflect on any groups I am part of.
minus-squaregandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5arrow-down1·1 day agoi solve the problem by dressing well, but still unremarkable. like, you have to look twice to see the harmony in it.
The dialectic of ‘I want to look cool as fuck’ and ‘I don’t want people to look at me’.
See also: I want to outwardly be my true self but I don’t want my shortcomings to reflect on any groups I am part of.
i solve the problem by dressing well, but still unremarkable. like, you have to look twice to see the harmony in it.