TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 months agoi'll be fine :)lemmy.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square19fedilinkarrow-up1296arrow-down13
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minus-squaremsage@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up21arrow-down1·3 months agoFrom personal experience: it varies. Sometimes it feels like hitting a rock bottom would help making changes that are necessary but uncomfortable, and relationship shields you from that.
minus-squareBeeegScaaawyCripple@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up12·3 months agosometimes that, and sometimes the relationship gives you the nudges to make the changes you need.
From personal experience: it varies.
Sometimes it feels like hitting a rock bottom would help making changes that are necessary but uncomfortable, and relationship shields you from that.
sometimes that, and sometimes the relationship gives you the nudges to make the changes you need.