We kind of agree with you. For example: Mother’s and Father’s day seem like obligations, especially for shitty parents.
If someone is a good parent, they do not need them. If they are not then it’s just a way to force your children to give you things, submit to your authority and make you feel good about your shitty parenting.
“Gendered holidays”?
Is Christmas female now?
I mean like this one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Women's_Day
It boils down to “one part of the binary celebrates another part of the binary”. You probably can see how it’s a problem for a closeted trans person.
For me all the “female” stuff is just FINTA stuff instead. Easy fix and conservatives don’t really know what FINTA means so they don’t care and I can celebrate alternative gender identities in peace.
It doesn’t matter how I see the holiday when in the end I will feel rejected because barely anyone knows and accepts my identity IRL.
As far as I’m concerned, every day is a feminism day.
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