• 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    I’m reading it as wholesome and cute, rather than sexual.

    wouldn’t it be wholesome if we would just casually cuddle friends? why is sleeping together a sex only thing? wouldn’t mind cuddling friends

    • strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      Ace-spec here… yeah, platonic cuddles should be more common. That has nothing to do with the fact I’m too much of a hermit to fall in love.

      … I wrote this, then immediately remembered that I basically don’t have IRL friends. I’m not getting cuddles either way :<

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      I have done this a VERY limited amount of times, cuddling for the night is a very intimate experience so the line between being comfortable doing it and not wanting / needing more intimacy is very fine