Isn’t it the normal way to not care? I usually don’t pay any attention to my character, neither do I think I’m my character.

I’ve played around with fem clothing a lot in a game, but I stop caring as soon as I left the clothing shop. My focus always shifted to where-ever I’m waking/running/shooting. I even picked a guy with a nice looking back because of that “looking at ass” meme

I’ll wear the gear that has the best stats and if the color doesn’t matter for stats it’ll definitely be pink.