• Delilah (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      5 hours ago

      I think you might be giving them too much credit. There’s also the aspect of addict = disability = unemployed/financially insecure = easier to entrap into a relationship she can’t leave

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        59 minutes ago

        Yeah, I 100% guarantee they aren’t thinking of that at all. It’s really clear both from the culture at large, and the contents of the message by “porn addict” they mean “horny often and into sex”, and by “they don’t want you” they mean you aren’t up to the standards of enjoyment they get from the porn they like.