Friends with benefits and not commitments is a thing that people can do… as with all things in literally any relationship, you just have to be clear and honest.

I had a few friends that just wanted to uh, try me, once or twice or maybe a few more times.

We remained friends afterwards, and just teehee’d about it if anyone brought it up.

One gal, she and I were supposed to just be totally casual, but I caught real feelings. She explained that she’d be bouncing outta that, and though my heart didn’t like it, my brain knew that made sense, and she didn’t mean any ill will by it.

… its not impossible to do.

… maybe we need to just play ‘Ramble On’ to Zoomers untill they get it, I dunno.