I thought fetishes are things which deviate from the baseline. Maybe we’ve come full circle.

I don’t mean neurodivergent here when I say crazy. Like crazy ex-boyfriends or crazy ex-girlfriends are the types of people who make unusual relationship or life decisions. And even then, if these people are neurotypically crazy, it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t deserve to be in a relationship, either.

Crazy doesn’t mean neurodivergent here! Neurodivergent people are a-okay in my book.

I see it a lot on reddit, personally.

Any post about women supporting Luigi Mangione has a lot of comments from men who insult them. Like they say “These women have no father figure.”

Another one was a post where someone posted an attractive dating photo with crazy text in the profile and saw how many messages from women that profile got. The commenters then made fun of the women for sending messages to this attractive profile.