
I find it hard to understand either, but I also find it hard to understand how I’ve fallen for crazy types in the past without alarms going off in my head that that’s what they were lol.
Quick PSA: Currently preparing for a move between cities. Apologies for recent lack of content on communities I moderate.
The local Albertan, rediscovering what it means to be me. May play devil’s advocate at times, as I like being nuanced.
Enjoys electronic music, adorable art, rhythm games, and perogies among other things.
I have lemmy.world and piefed.world blocked. Sorry, too much American politics and an unfortunate amount of casual transphobia for my liking. Feels like talking to a brick wall with people and I can’t be bothered anymore.
Also have lemmy.ml blocked for transphobia and gross dismissal of human rights issues in China by the admins.
#nobot #AuDHD

I find it hard to understand either, but I also find it hard to understand how I’ve fallen for crazy types in the past without alarms going off in my head that that’s what they were lol.
…because it’s happened to me before?
Had an ex in junior high tell friends and others that I tried forcing myself onto her after I didn’t feel comfortable getting intimate with her like that when visiting her place for Christmas, which was her cheap excuse to justify to them why she cheated on me.
The exact opposite was the case where she threatened to blackmail me if I didn’t do something, which she then did anyway. Didn’t realise I was on the ace spectrum until years later.
You don’t solve the issues you face by diminishing those of others.
My autistic ass had to do a double-take on “having a cute ass” before I realised what community this was posted to lmao.